It’s a new year and maybe you think you’ve been without a partner long enough. In 2020, you want to date someone fun– or even fall in love.
Dating at this age feel a little, well, foreign? I know the feeling. I entered the dating pool again in my mid-50s and the terrain was unfamiliar. Online dating for seniors can be daunting.
But I learned to not only navigate the terrain of dating as an older adult, but summit the peak. Not without a few stumbles, I admit. But along the way I found a method that worked for me and for the midlife and senior people I’ve coached.
My most recent coaching client met someone fabulous on her second outing after signing up to an online dating service. They’re quite taken with each other and truth is, they’re a good match. And it happened so fast because of targeting. Yep. I have a very specific method and targeting is a big part of it. And she was a tough case: she’d listened to all the horrible online dating stories, has a busy life and doesn’t like to spend time online.
But she wasn’t finding the right guy organically.
Her first outing didn’t go so well–because she broke several of my cardinal rules for success. But after a post-date coaching call, she decide to follow the steps we’d discussed and BAM! She met her match the very next outing. They just celebrated their first Valentine’s Day together and yes, the “L” word has been mentioned.
You could have the same outcome she did– because I’m offering a Find your midlife or senior soulmate now! coaching adventure that can help you find the relationship you’ve wanted. You will:
- Explore self-limiting beliefs, stereotypes and assumptions about online dating at midlife or older
- Learn how to make conscious choices that support finding your midlife or senior soulmate
- Discover and specify the kind of relationship you really want
- See how attitude and intentions impact our ability to find our soulmate
- Develop a dating profile that reflects who you really are and attracts the kind of person you want
- Learn how to select and strategically use an online dating app
- Develop perspective to cope more effectively with the twists and turns of dating
- Strengthen existing skills that help you better connect with potential partners
- Increase confidence and decrease fear of online dating apps as an effective a way to find your soulmate in these older years
This fast-paced adventure (and that’s what it is) is for active, mature adults looking to take a personal journey into finding the soulmate they’ve dreamed of. And who are willing to do things differently than they have in the past.
And to give you a little taste of what’s in store, I’m offering a 30-minute discovery coaching session by phone or Zoom call for only $29.
You’ll walk away with…
- A simple, clear vision of the relationship you seek
- Knowledge of the hidden obstacles that could be sabotaging your dating success
- Next steps for finding someone you really want to spend time with
Sound intriguing? Want this year to be fun and exciting? Schedule your introductory discovery call here and let’s get started!
After a horrible first marriage with someone that didn’t have the same likes or values as I did, I was very targeted when I used an online dating app. Anyone that had the words smoker, guns, hunter, or NASCAR in their profile was out. Except for the smoking, which was an absolute NO, I’m not really against any of them. But if the other person was so into it that they felt a need to mention it in their profile, then they were into it too much for me. The other requirement that I had was he had to cook, because I don’t. Luckily, I found a chef.
Wow, you really did some effective targeting! And you were definitely a winner to find a chef!
I’ve known several older people who hooked up via online dating. I’m sure it has its pluses and minuses, but seems a great, easy way to meet people.
Yes, everything has pluses and minuses but as a way of meeting people, this is so easy! But it can intimidate, so coaching is helpful.
That’s a great direction you’re going in. Me, I’m going to stick to dating my dogs for a while but maybe in the future.
Your loss is new and taking time with the dogs is so wise. But you have so much to offer another that one day, I hope you will find someone to partner up with. So glad i have gotten to know you these years. Hoping your life lightens up…
Someday not today!
Just say when! It’s way fun!
I love that you’re doing this I know how good you are it.
Easy for you to say, you live with your hot hubby and soulmate! LOL
This is such a neat concept!! I bet you have fun helping people find true love in their life. You’re right the older you are the more particular you are about who you want to date, and target dating is such a wonderful way to do it.
It is amazing and fun to do!
Luckily I I am not in the dating scence but I love you have this service and I can see it being so valuable.
Thank you so much! I hope you’ll pass this service along to friends who might really benefit!
I appreciate your talents and insights into important issues. You have a gift for interpersonal relationships, and I enjoy your writing.
Aww… thanks so much, Elaine!
Wow! I would have definitely used something like this if it had been available six months ago! I went on a mission at that point and met the LOML (he taught me that acronym… lol) I also targeted and did something different. I did NOT put up photos and only picked men who did NOT put up photos and only responded to guys who did NOT put up photos. It was very interesting targeting this tact only and allowed us to only focus on personalities as we emailed and talked on the phone. In the end, I let my gut guide me to whom my inner soul’s essence felt most drawn to and the chemistry and physical attraction when we finally met was off the charts and it’s been heaven on earth. Maybe I just got lucky? I think your service is awesome and will tell my friends!
Iam so happy for you! Yes, the alchemy can be mysterious. I am thrilled you’ll refer this service on!
Yet another group for you to help, Carol! You are SO amazing!
Oh, honey, we are ALL amazing!