Here’s a question:

Can you make someone feel like they are the most important person in the world at that moment?

Can you give them a lift that will brighten that moment or even their entire day? It happened to me the other day and I can’t tell you how wonderful it was. I realized that I do this often for others–and it made me wonder how often others do it.

“Here’s what I love about you.”

“You have the most beautiful smile!”

“Thank you for always looking on the positive side.”

“You are always the first one to reach out when I need help.”


How about making it your mission today to tell someone in detail how fabulous they are. Validate someone.

You’ll lift them up–and yourself at the same time.

And don’t forget our beautiful best friend candles–telling your BFF that they’re your person is HUGE validation–and a wonderful gift. Especially with the holidays coming up soon. Here’s how to do that.

But really, any kind of validation works. It’s all good. All of it.

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