Find your midlife or senior soulmate now!

Find your midlife or senior soulmate now!

online-dating-for-seniorsIt’s a new year and maybe you think you’ve been without a partner long enough. In 2020, you want to date someone fun– or even fall in love.

Dating at this age feel a little, well, foreign? I know the feeling. I entered the dating pool again in my mid-50s and the terrain was unfamiliar. Online dating for seniors can be daunting.

But I learned to not only navigate the terrain of dating as an older adult, but summit the peak. Not without a few stumbles, I admit. But along the way I found a method that worked for me and for the midlife and senior people I’ve coached.

online-dating-for-seniorsMy most recent coaching client met someone fabulous on her second outing after signing up to an online dating service. They’re quite taken with each other and truth is, they’re a good match. And it happened so fast because of targeting. Yep. I have a very specific method and targeting is a big part of it. And she was a tough case: she’d listened to all the horrible online dating stories, has a busy life and doesn’t like to spend time online.

But she wasn’t finding the right guy organically.

Her first outing didn’t go so well–because she broke several of my cardinal rules for success. But after a post-date coaching call, she decide to follow the steps  we’d discussed and BAM! She met her match the very next outing. They just celebrated their first Valentine’s Day together and yes, the “L” word has been mentioned.

You could have the same outcome she did– because I’m offering a Find your midlife or senior soulmate now! coaching adventure that can help you find the relationship you’ve wanted. You will:

  • Explore self-limiting beliefs, stereotypes and assumptions about online dating at midlife or older
  • Learn how to make conscious choices that support finding your midlife or senior soulmate
  • Discover and specify the kind of relationship you really want
  • See how attitude and intentions impact our ability to find our soulmate
  • Develop a dating profile that reflects who you really are and attracts the kind of person you want
  • Learn how to select and strategically use an online dating app
  • Develop perspective to cope more effectively with the twists and turns of dating
  • Strengthen existing skills that help you better connect with potential partners
  • Increase confidence and decrease fear of online dating apps as an effective a way to find your soulmate in these older years

This fast-paced adventure (and that’s what it is) is for active, mature adults looking to take a personal journey into finding the soulmate they’ve dreamed of. And who are willing to do things differently than they have in the past.

And to give you a little taste of what’s in store, I’m offering a 30-minute discovery coaching session by phone or Zoom call for only $29.

You’ll walk away with…

  • A simple, clear vision of the relationship you seek
  • Knowledge of the hidden obstacles that could be sabotaging your dating success
  • Next steps for finding someone you really want to spend time with

Sound intriguing? Want this year to be fun and exciting? Schedule your introductory discovery call here and let’s get started!

Should you lead with your heart?

Should you lead with your heart?


Do you lead with your heart?

It’s means being vulnerable. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

It can be risky. But not all risk is to be avoided–sometimes, great fulfillment likes on the other side.

Leading with your heart can bring the highest of highs.And also the lowest of lows.

Sometimes, it may not be the best option.

Sometimes, it’s the only option.

I’ve done it, and it hasn’t worked out. I’ve not done it, and it hasn’t worked out.

I’ve done it and it’s worked out. I’ve not done it and it’s worked out.

Lead with your heart, don’t lead with your heart: maybe it doesn’t matter either way.

What do you say?

You be smart enough, too

smart-enoughAh, Joan. She was definitely smart enough.

I never had plan. Like Joan, I paid attention and when a door opened and invited me in, I walked through. As a result, I look back on an interesting life and a career that satisfied me, made me happy and even allowed me to save for retirement.

I was lucky. Intuitively, I knew how to differentiate between a real invitation and something that wouldn’t have been a serious choice. Many doors lead nowhere. But you don’t have to walk through them to see it.

Would you like to learn how to find the doors that lead to making your dream come true? Uncover hidden obstacles that stand in the way of having everything you like? And emerge with a roadmap and realistic plan to make your career or personal life what you want them to be?

Let’s open some doors. Shoot me an email at and let’s talk.

Nervous about dating again?

Nervous about dating again?

datingSo. Maybe you’re single later in life. You want to date and eventually meet someone special, but you don’t know how to begin.

Maybe you don’t think you’re the femme fatale you  were when you were young.

Maybe the idea of hanging out in bars sounds dated. (It is.)

Maybe online dating sounds scary or intimidating.

datingWell, maybe, just maybe, dating later in life doesn’t have to be scary. Or intimidating.

Maybe you don’t have to be young, nubile or in perfect shape to date.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to partner up later in life. You’re never too old, too grey, too out of shape, either.

You don’t have to be lipo-suctioned, face-lifted or botoxed. Trust me on that.

I know this firsthand because I’m hardly a femme fatale. When I decided to step into the single world in my 50s, I ended up with four marriage proposals the first year.  A girlfriend began dating again in her 60s and had no shortage of fun dates.

How did we do it?

It’s not hard. Anyone can do it.

You just need to be you. Your authentic self.  And you need to know a few strategic moves. Because we’re not 18 any  more and it takes a little more effort to meet your match.

A little, not a lot. Easy.

datingNo matter your age, let me coach you through your reentry to the dating scene.

My package of four telephone/internet coaching sessions can be found here. And yes, it will take four to get you started.  But after that?


Email me at Carol (at) to book a no-obligation telephone consultation now. Let the new year be your best ever.